Every man who loves a woman wants to be her hero!
From childhood to today, many of us men have fantasized about saving our damsel in distress. As a man in a committed relationship, it’s like air! If we are not your hero or you give us the impression that we are not needed, we will feel there is no reason for us to be a part of your life. A man will consciously or subconsciously be a champion somewhere else. He may seek to be that knight in shining armor at work, as a little league coach, at church, or in the arms of another woman. A female that makes him feel needed.
This does not mean we want our women to be helpless and needy! No! A woman can be strong and still show vulnerability. She can take care of business while being in her feminine space. Femininity and vulnerability are significant assets to a woman in a loving relationship. The woman’s power in a relationship is not aggression or masculinity. It is not her educational background, business accomplishments, or social status.
Some circles in society are teaching women the opposite now. There’s nothing like masculine and feminine energy working together to reach common goals in life. If the man wanted to deal with another masculine energy, he might as well hang out with other men. Some women have jobs and careers that they feel the need to be aggressive and manly to succeed. If that’s the case, leave it at work when you’re done for the day because you will not need it with your man. Nothing will ever move a man like a feminine woman. A Ladylike woman will get the heart of her man. This divine gift will cause your man to cherish you like a precious jewel. He will assume the role of being your protector.
Think about a paper cup for a moment. We leave paper cups sitting carelessly around the table, on the floor or kicked around on a blanket. You will never find a precious China cup just sitting around. It’s handled with care and thoughtfulness. Everyone does not have permission to use it, and we keep it in a protected place. It’s exclusive. That’s how we treat things that are precious and dear to us.